It would be useful to be able to take two users' wishlists and tradelists and see the overlap.
I think what you're looking for may be the tables that appear if you go to a user's profile page, under "Trading opportunities". Try this: http://deckbox.org/users/smallshake .
I don't have anything in my Tradelist, so you should only see the intersection of your Tradelist with my Wishlist. Although I just learned that you can switch to using Inventory instead of Tradelist.
Quite a nice collection btw.