Re: How long should I wait on a mail trade?
Feel free to make a post in the BTR forum following the instructions found here: http://deckbox.org/forum/viewtopic.php?id=5650. A member of the Deckbox Team will assist you in contacting your trade partner.
Re: How long should I wait on a mail trade?
Do you know if he used tracking? Either way, it sounds like you need assistance in contacting your trade partner and the next step in reaching a solution requires his input. Again, I suggest opening a BTR so the Deckbox Team can determine whether the trader is still active or not.
Re: How long should I wait on a mail trade?
As AsymptomaticPyrexia has said, you should explore starting a bad trading report; however, I would imagine that if you haven't sent your cards out yet, then they'll likely just suggest you cancel the trade and leave negative feedback as your only loss in the trade was time (although sometimes that's worth more than the cards sent...).
Re: How long should I wait on a mail trade?
If your trade partner does not respond to the BTR, the Deckbox Team will allow you to leave negative feedback and he will be added to the Scammers List that can be found here: http://deckbox.org/forum/viewtopic.php?id=5651
If he does respond, the following options will be available - assuming he did not use tracking:
He resends the cards agreed upon
He sends compensation and you send your cards as agreed
Cancel the trade, in which case you may only leave positive or neutral feedbacks