baller wrote:IronMagus, I see what you're saying, but it is his responsibility to keep track of his side of the trade. The only reason I pointed out the rules is because he was breaking them. Deckbox only works if we all, as a community, adhere to the same rules.
Yes, he should have kept better track of his cards, and no, he shouldn't have finalized the trade without confirming he actually had them available. But on the other hand, s--t happens, and we can't all of us be perfect, all of the time. It was his responsibility to fulfill the agreement once he finalized the trade, and he did so, but you could also have just accepted something else of similar value in its place, or said "no harm, no foul" and agreed to just cancel the trade completely, presuming you hadn't sent your end yet either. I'm not saying you should have done either of those, but you did have the option. Perhaps by you bringing up the rules (implying, if not actually expressing the threat of a BTR and negative feedback, over what most would probably consider a pretty low-value trade in the first place) instead of offering up one of those other possible solutions, he felt you were bullying him into something he didn't want to do, even if that's just an extra trip to the card shop that he didn't plan on making. Or, maybe he's just being a dick. It's hard for any of us to say what another person's thoughts and motives are.
In the end, he was left dissatisfied by the overall trade experience, and that's what neutral feedbacks are for. It doesn't affect your rating, you still have 100%...your trade score just didn't go up by a point.
Last edited by IronMagus (2014-09-24 19:59:26)