sebi wrote:jassi007 wrote:So another user has opened a BTR to early. https://deckbox.org/forum/viewtopic.php?id=22802 Curious if he'll be receiving a negative or if fairpointmagic got one because basically he annoyed the deckbox mods. Or if in fact he got a negative on one trade because of his dissatisfaction with the outcome of a different trade.
What are you suggesting jassi? That we just let fairportmagic go with 100% feedback after we cannot reason with him? Don't YOU want to know when visiting his profile that he has behaved the way he did in 2 consecutive BTRs?
Looking forward to your answer.
Thank you for responding. I will be happy to address your questions.
I think you overstepped giving fairpoint a negative. That may be obvious but I’ll just put that up front. I think if you maintain giving him a negative, give it to him for the trade that you actually have issue with, and don’t have a case where you have some weird situation where you gave someone a negative on a trade that you normally would not give a negative for. This just confuses the users to what the rules actually are.
To address the sale of the JMTS between fairpoint and Micah since that is what the neg is really about. You again ran into a situation with no clear outcome, and without any way to make a decision you ate the cost again. I understand why, but you clearly can’t keep doing business this way. It has only come up twice, but your just banking on hope that it doesn’t happen often.
Back to the main point. So fairpoint see’s Micah doesn’t pay anything. He gets a couple bucks and a scuffed/scratched JMTS when he really wanted a minty one. He isn’t happy. So he vents on the internet. Should he have kept his words to himself and not posted again? Probably. Was his anger understandable? To me it was. He sees the situation as someone just got away with a bad trade and will suffer no consequences. You got upset in return because you tried to resolve this to the best of your ability by still taking the loss, and to your POV he is ungrateful. So your annoyed with this guy, then a couple days later he posts a BTR because he is nervous and impatient with a new user about a trade. You think “what is it with this guy he’s a pain in the ass he needs a lesson to knock it off” or something like that. Fairpoint is thinking “god I’m going to get ripped off again why do I keep having problems with traders on this site!” so he posts a BTR early.
Put yourself in fairpoints shoes. He had a bad trade, his trading partner didn’t get anything more than a slap on the wrist, here is a new trader who is not as communicative as he’d like, he’s just sort of down on mail trading, and now he has a neg to.
I don’t think fairpoint is a bad guy. I think he didn’t need anything more than a warning. I think your doing the best you can and are looking for a way out of a shitty situation with the condition issue when it comes to sales.
Since you asked for my 2 cents here is what I would do.
1. Restore fairpoints feedback. His trading partner didn’t have a problem with him and that isn’t the issue that caused you to neg him anway. It sets a bad example for what is worth a negative and what isn’t.
2. Give him a clear warning, that what he said and did was not acceptable. He was made whole, and that is the most he should expect the outcome of a trade to be.
3. Reconsider fairpoints negative. I do think, to bluntly answer your question that as a trader I don’t see his reaction to the outcome of the first trade as anything other than understandable. If he did file a chargeback with paypal then neg him and suspend him. Make it clear to him that this is the resolution, and other solutions won’t be tolerated. If he does business or trades on deckbox he abides by the rules and decisions period. You say he can't be reasoned with, but that isn't exactly true. He didn't take any further action. He was still mad, and made a post he probably shouldn't have, but he didn't do anything. As things stand, he abided by your decision. Except he was later punished further.
4. Resolve your issue with how to deal with sales/trades quickly. I think you know what the answer is, but don’t want to do it because it scares sellers. Every other online system, be it Amazon, Ebay, TCGplayer etc. hold the seller 100% responsible. They then monitor for buyers that abuse the fact. The truth is I can go buy a card off tcgplayer, state condition not as described and the seller can either take it back, give me a partial refund, or risk his seller status with TCGP. Same goes for ebay etc. The buyer is right, even if he is dishonest. It is the only policy that truly works because you can almost never actually get to the truth. If you’d have had this policy, Fairpoint probably would not have had an outburst if he felt the seller suffered some consequence of sending him a card in poorer condition than described.
5. I personally would rather know Micah may have sent a card in worse condition than described than to know fairpoint gets mad when someone rips him off (from his point of view) I would be mad too if it happened to me! I may be a little better able to keep myself from having an outburst on the internet, but I would be just as upset. Your feedback system doesn’t adequately warn buyers about the fact that this person may have sent a card in poorer condition than he described it. As a buyer of magic cards, reading this outcome, I’m more hesitant to buy from deckbox. TCGP has a guarantee to their buyers, deckbox doesn’t. I know you hate being compared to TCGP but you are a marketplace where many sellers are aggregated like TCGP. When I had a condition problem with a seller on TCGP I leave them a 1/5 or 0/5 and other buyers are warned. On deckbox, he did get a neutral. I’m not sure if that is sufficient, because the idea of a neutral on deckbox is it doesn’t affect your overall feedback score.