My 2 cents below, along with a bit of history.
The judge and jury
The trade system is implemented and online for at least 2 years now. Before the BTR system we also had rules that were more vague and open to interpretation, and no public discussion on disputes.
There still were disputes of course, and we still handled them, only it happened over email. People sent us email that they were scammed, or lied to, or that they received negative feedback when they did not deserve it. We then tried to answer and help them as best we could. We also emailed the accused party to ask them if the claims are true, and so forth.
The whole process was "behind the scenes" though, other users were not aware of what the site does when they would lie, or when they would be lied to. So we took the example of other big trading platforms, and we moved the whole discussion on the forum, so everyone can see and comment on what happens.
This of course came with stricter rules, because our former vague rules were being criticised and misinterpreted, leading to convoluted discussion.
Negative feedback
The problem with negative feedback is that it works both ways. If everyone is allowed to leave negative feedback, the aforementioned BTR would have worked the following way:
- BaronVonVaderham and Almundjoys would have left negative feedback to ieatoburritos
- ieatoburritos would have left retaliatory negative feedback to BaronVonVaderham and Almundjoys
- now we would get an email to support@deckbox.org that Baron/Almundjoys received negative feedback but they did not deserve it
- a whole discussion would start on email with us trying to understand what happened and who is screwing over who
- after many hours of wasted time for many people, we would come to the same conclusion as the aforementioned BTR
- the whole thing would start again with other people after a few days because they just left negative feedback not caring about rules, because they did not know those rules are enforced
Evidence
We're now at the beginning of this new system and we're trying our best to learn how it's done. We're not always sure what the right decision should be. Thus we err on the side of caution, and we ask for as much evidence as possible, so as not to make the wrong accusations.
In this case we might have gone too far. I personally knew ieatoburritos deserves negative feedback from the first post in the thread. The other 25.000 users on deckbox though, did not. They have to see what I see in the end, and have to trust that we make people stand by their claims with hard evidence. People lie about dates on envelopes all the time, even though in this case it was pretty obvious you guys had no reason to.
We definitely did not want to make you go through trash to find the envelope BaronVonVaderham. I'm sorry it has come to that. We will try in the future to expedite decisions on obvious cases, and not make people provide excessive proof.
Thank you for the feedback so far and looking forward to reading your opinions on these things.